Sandra,
You've already captured many of the best Bobby/Pam moments on You Tube.
My favorite scene is in Deliverance when they both confess their love for each other.
I like the proposal and bedroom scene in Swan Song are awesome. Don't like the end of Swan Song. Sorry.
The scenes in Hush, Hush Sweet Jessie and Battle Lines when Bobby and Pam clarify "the letter" are significant. That puts "lighter fluid" on their relationship.
The scene where Pam tells Bobby of her dream, her fantasy that they could get back together. Bobby realizes Pam's feelings for her. This is the match that reignites the fire.
Their first kiss after their Divorce.
Clearing the air about Alex Ward.
In Act of Love season 1, when Bobby bought Pam a dress for her trip to Paris. Pam passed up trip to Paris to help Bobby with business deal.
Trip to California to clear up Christopher parentage (is that a word?).
Season 9, Bobby coming back to Pam's after telling everyone that he had reconciled with Pam (poolside scene). I loved their "us against the world" attitude.
Early season 6, Bobby making his reconciliation pitch to Pam at restaurant.
I liked the scene with Pam on the horse and Bobby getting out of his car as they fight about Jenna in Old Acquintance. We saw the fiesty side of Pam.
They had so many nice married moments, but they are overshadowed by scenes of the long path back to reconciliation.
Example, last scene in season 1 Survival. When JR and Bobby come home, as soon as Pam sees Bobby, immediately she walks into his arms.